Thursday, August 14, 2008

How Thoughts Affect Us

How Thoughts Affect Us

Perhaps the most basic of all the 'mental laws', and one
hopefully drummed into every student of psychotherapy and
the mind, is that every thought has a consequence.

Yet so often in our day to day lives we choose to see
thoughts as simply abstract things - we think them and then
forget about them, as if they had never existed. No harm in
this, we reason, it's just a thought. Unfortunately, there
are dangers in this way of thinking.

Believing that thoughts themselves have no real and actual
affect upon us, we can so very easily allow even the most
negative thought to go unchecked and unchallenged. After
all, we reason, it's only a thought, it doesn't really
matter.

It's as if we believe that thoughts are wispy and
insubstantial things, with no real existence, capable of
dissipating and disappearing into the ether once we have
experienced them. Perhaps it's because our thoughts are
such private things that it's easy to imagine them as
insubstantial and intangible.

This of course can only happen if we hold the belief that
the mind and the body are quite separate, disparate
entities, each with its own distinct domain, operating
independently of each other.

The truth, of course, is that mind and body are indeed
interconnected, with each affecting the other. Each thought
we think has its consequence. And those consequences can
indeed have a tremendous affect, not only on our mind and
our feelings, but also on our body. Negative or positive,
thoughts do indeed have a very real affect upon us.

Let me illustrate this with a simple little exercise that
nicely demonstrates the tangible effects of thought - and
the interconnectedness and inseparability of mind and body.
To do this, I am going to ask you to use your imagination.

Imagine yourself walking over to your refrigerator. As you
open the door, there's the soft sound of the seal being
broken and perhaps the feeling of cold air escaping. Now,
imagine that there's a lemon in there and imagine yourself
reaching in and taking that lemon out. Perhaps it feels a
little cold in your hand, as you bring it over to a board
or somewhere you can safely cut it.

Now imagine yourself taking a knife and slicing the lemon
in half, lengthways.  Maybe you can see the white segment
in the middle, and perhaps there are some pips there too,
as a little of the juice runs out. Now cut the lemon again,
so that you have a quarter, a nice wedge. Lift it up and
hold it under your nose. Perhaps you can almost smell the
pungent lemon aroma. Now, quickly imagine yourself taking a
great big bite into that lemon. Really squeeze it so that
the juice spurts into your mouth and onto your tongue,
maybe some of the juice even trickles down your lips onto
your chin.

Exercise over.

If you really did imagine sinking your teeth into that
lemon and squeezing the juice into your mouth then a couple
of things will probably have happened: The muscles of your
jaw will have automatically tightened as you did so and
there will have been an increase of saliva in your mouth.

Now, we know that the flow of saliva is not under the
control of the conscious mind; it's controlled by the
unconscious mind. It simply cannot be willed.

What's happened, of course, is that the subconscious mind
cannot distinguish between real and imaginary. For it, a
thought is treated as a reality and an imagined lemon is as
real as an actual lemon. The simple act of thinking about
sinking your teeth into a lemon is enough to produce the
exact same physical affect as if you had really done so.

A thought which existed in the mind has had a tangible
effect on the body.

In India, the home of so much philosophy and of astrology,
the palpable nature of thought has long been recognised.
There, astrologers make horoscopes for the birth of a
thought or a question, in order to better understand it. It
is a practice that has survived thousands of years. This
branch of astrology is called horary astrology. For these
astrologers, a thought is something very real and tangible.

The fact is that the thoughts we think affect us on many
levels, including the physical. This means that the
thoughts we have and the things we tell ourselves, about
ourselves, in the privacy of our own mind affect not only
how we feel, but what we become. After all, if thoughts
have physical consequences, then they can make us ill or
well.

When you find yourself thinking negatively, or experiencing
a period of difficulty in your approach to the world, when
you find yourself thinking thoughts such as: 'I'll probably
come down with...'; 'I'll never be able to..'; 'I'll
probably only fail...'; 'I don't really deserve...';
immediately replace the thought with a positive statement
or affirmation. And repeat it at least 10 times. Make a
habit of this and you can change your reality.

Here are some examples you can use, and of course you can
create your own as you go along. Select one and use it for
at least a month.

'I am becoming balanced and whole in body, mind and spirit'

'The past is over now and I am free to move on with my life'

'I am alive, healthy and free'

Be sure to repeat your positive statement 10 times when you
awaken in the morning and just before sleeping at night.
Use it again whenever you catch yourself thinking a really
negative thought. Remember, practice is the key here.
Persistence really does pay dividends!

'All that we are is the result of all that we have thought.
It is founded on thought. It is made up of our thoughts.'
The Buddha, The Dhammapada


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Peter Field is a leading British hypno-psychotherapist,
with clinics in both Birmingham and London. Author of
numerous articles on psychotherapy, hypnosis and health, he
is a Member of the British Association for Counselling and
Psychotherapy and Fellow of the Royal Society of Health.
For more interesting articles and helpful information,
visit his website: http://www.peterfieldhypnotherapy.co.uk




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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Are You A Sleep Walker Or A Light Bearer?

Are You A Sleep Walker Or A Light Bearer?

Have you ever looked in the mirror and asked yourself the
questions: Why am I here? What is my purpose? What is it
that God placed me on this earth to do? This can be a hard
question to answer because of the way that the "world" has
trained us to think. From the time that we were born we
started to be programmed with an "easy - hard" mindset.

What do I mean by easy - hard you ask? Well, we have always
been taught to do the easy thing first and put off the hard
things. For example: Let's say you are faced with making
the decision of whether or not to break off a friendship
with someone whom you know is a bad influence on you. What
is the easy thing to do in a situation like this? You do
not want to offend them right? So you just let it go and
keep living your life influenced by this negative person.
It's the way we've always been trained. To take the easy
road!!

Now wouldn't you agree that doing the hard thing first
although it is painful in the beginning would add quality
and ease to your life in the long run? Well, maybe you are
not convinced yet so let's look at a better example: Let's
say you arrive at the grocery store to buy your food for
the week and you only have just enough money to get you by
for the week. You are walking up to the store door and see
a young mother with a small child who are hungry and in
need of a roof over their head.

What is the easy thing to do here? Walk right on by and say
it's probably her fault for being in such a situation and
she doesn't deserve anything or taking your limited amount
of money and buying these two desperate people what they
need and letting yourself go for now? What have we been
programmed to do? The first and easiest one right? Again
this is the way the world has programmed us to think.

So I ask you the question: Which one are you? Are you the
one who is always looking out for number one and looking
for the easy way out or are you a giver who is always
looking to serve someone else? This is where the title of
this article comes into play. Are you a sleep walker or are
you a light bearer? Let's take a look at the sleep walkers
for a moment. Sleep walkers make up about 90% of the
population. These people are not really bad people they are
simply asleep to the law of giving and receiving or
vibration and attraction as some people like to call it.

This law of the universe has been spiritually as well as
scientifically proven to be a fact. What you give into the
universe must be given back many times over. The Bible
states and I am sure you have heard it before: Give and you
shall receive!! It is law and it always works every single
time. Not only is it law it is God's law!! Now stop and
think about the questions that you look in the mirror and
ask yourself: Why am I here? What is my purpose? Why did
God place me on this earth?

If you do not know the answer then you are a sleep walker
and are in need of finding your soul purpose. Everyone has
been put on this earth for a reason and when you find out
why you were put here then and only then will you start to
see true wealth in your life. Joy wealth, health wealth,
peace wealth, happiness wealth, and monitary wealth.
Finding out your soul purpose is not enough though. You
must also put it into action in service to other people.
You must add value to other people's lives.

Think about this for a minute, if you know why you were put
here on earth and you serve other people with your cause by
adding value to their lives then the natural law has no
choice but to reward you for your efforts!! Now I am not
telling you to go out and start giving just to get. It
doesn't work that way. You must find your soul purpose and
give it with love to the world. When entering the spiritual
realm which is what we are ultimately talking about here
love is no longer an emotion but a passion to serve the
world with your cause.

It becomes your passion and is very rewarding in all
aspects of your life. So how do you get to the point to
where you know your soul purpose? You need coaching, a
mentor, someone who's soul purpose is to help you find
yours. These enlightened individuals are like hens teeth
but they do exist because I have found mine. My mentor
claims that there are only 108 people in the world who's
soul purpose in life is to help others find theirs. These
people seem like odd ducks compared to 90% of the other
people you have encountered but these principles outlined
in this article are exactly what they teach.

If you are discontent with your life and are looking for a
change I strongly encourage you to study these principles
and put them to work for you. This is a great way also to
make the world a more peaceful place. When everyone knows
why they are here and are getting paid well for their
service to the world we will no longer want to rape the
planet or each other. We will no longer need to steal or
cheat or lie. We will love beyond all understanding and
live in a great world just the way God intended in the
first place. We will never run out of money or friends. Our
health will improve and we can live in peace and harmony
together.

We have to learn to practice Hard - Easy from now on!! What
is hard easy? Well, it is just the opposite of what we have
always been taught. We have to have discipline in our
lives. When we wake in the morning we should awake with a
spirit thankfulness to God for giving us another day to go
out and serve someone with our soul purpose. If we will do
the hard thing first which is only hard to the ego or the
mind then the rest of our lives will be easy and flow
naturally. Remember that when you add value to people's
lives then everything else will naturally be taken care of.


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Monday, August 4, 2008

Moving Guide to Budgeting for Relocation

Moving Guide to Budgeting for Relocation

Few people realize just how expensive moving house can be
and unless you want to end up with a huge moving bill it's
very important that you put together a budget before you
start, so that you know what services you can and can't
afford.

Our Budgeting Tips for Moving will help you to figure out a
moving budget and also offers tips for how you can save
money when moving. So, what's going to cost you money?

Here are the main points to consider when calculating your
budget:
1. Hiring a Professional Moving Company - hiring
professionals can be costly, but there's no doubt that this
can save you time and headaches.
a. Make sure you get several quotes from moving companies
before deciding on one. Use our Instant Moving Quote for a
hassle-free way of receiving quotes from a number of
suitable companies.
b. Don't forget to factor in other moving company costs as
well. Make sure you read the small print so that you don't
find you're paying for something you didn't know about.
c. Decide whether you want to use their packing service.
d. Also ask about any other costs which might pop up such
as extra fees for moving heavier or difficult items,
whether they charge extra for accessing an apartment on a
high floor and whether they will have any trouble getting
the truck to your property - if they do you may have to pay
extra for a small shuttle truck.

2.Moving Yourself - this should certainly be cheaper than
hiring a moving company, but before you jump in for the
cheaper option, think carefully about whether you can
actually do this yourself. Read our Top Tens to find out
our recommendations.
a. Truck Rental fees may sound like a great deal on the
face of it, but watch out for all the other costs you might
incur too. Book early for the best deals.
b. The majority of truck rental companies charge you for
the mileage (unless you can find one with a set daily
mileage limit or even better, unlimited mileage). If you're
moving across town this won't be too bad, but if you're
moving inter-state this can really add up.
c. Factor in the cost of gas. Use a mileage calculator to
work out how many miles you'll be going so that you know
how much the gas is going to cost you.
d. Think about whether you would like to use additional
services, such as renting a loading ramp or a dolly, as
well as furniture covers.
e. Insurance costs. Do you need extra insurance? Check with
your credit card company if you have vehicle rental
insurance as an extra benefit; many companies do offer this
and it will save you the extra cost.

3. Transportation - if you're just moving across town, this
really isn't an issue, but if you're moving inter-state,
transportation costs can quickly add up.
a. Decide whether it would be best for you to fly to your
new town, and try to book flights as early as possible for
better deals.
b. If you're driving, remember to include the cost of gas,
wear and tear on your vehicle, road tolls, breakdown
assistance.
c. Will you need accommodation en-route? Plan your
overnight stops in advance so that you can research the
cost of motels and hotels and make bookings so that you're
not searching around late at night for vacancies.

4. Packing and Storage - if you're moving yourself,
remember to factor in the cost of packaging supplies.
a. Many companies offer package deals on boxes, tape and
materials, so look around on the internet for the best
deals.
b. Consider whether you'll need to pay for storage and
compare costs here too to find a good deal.

5.Buying and Selling Costs - when moving house we do of
course have many other fees to pay out, include all of your
buying and selling costs into your budget as these are
probably the largest single expense.


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